A FICTIONAL NON-FICTION


“If you have a candle, the light won’t glow any dimmer if I light yours off of mine.”

                                                                                                             – Steve Tyler

The sun sets over the ruins of Antigua. Crumbled masonry work hundreds of years old catching the last rays of warmth before the evening chill sets in. The streets fill with people, the fiesta begins. It is a Saturday night. But not just any Saturday night, this is one of those nights where something is shared; something so sacred, so raw.

The chatter and banter among friends grows rowdy as happy hour draws to a close. But the next is just about to begin – a change of scene and all resumes as it was just minutes earlier. Friends are together, new and old. Time slips by like sand through fingers.

The diversity of the world on offer in every corner of the bar; I strike up a conversation with a stunning young European woman. Introductions are shared and the obligatory Lord of the Rings discussion ensues, though this one is curtailed owing to my ignorance of both the books and the movies. The conversation turns to more delectable topics – life, peace, love. There is an aura about this woman, she is frank and to the point. You don’t often meet someone so real, so honest – the kind of honesty and sincerity you can see deep in someone’s eyes. That glint, that shine; a sort of cheekiness that absorbs you.

The hour becomes late and deserved rest is beckoning. Arm in arm, stride for stride we make our way to her apartment. She turns her head,

“There is a 99.99% chance that I will never see you again after this night. There is something I would like to share about my past…”

You don't often meet someone so real, so honest. We find ourselves in a deep embrace on cold, stone steps. We say very little – there is little that can be said. A raw moment. I pull her close. I hold her closer. I whisper something in her ear.

It is a cruel world. Why?

IT'S BEEN REAL

"Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one"
                                                                            ~Albert Einstein

Real good,
Real bad;
Real happy,
Real sad;
Real magical,
Was it real what we had?

It doesn’t matter now. 

THE BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE


"Never lose an opportunity of seeing anything beautiful, for beauty is God's handwriting"
                                                                                                       ~ Charles Kingsley

Brad Pitt and Angelina, Scarlett Johansson, Ryan Gosling, Katie Perry, George Clooney – they ain’t got nothing…I want to tell you the story of the real beautiful people.

Enter Julio, Roberto, Carlitos and Byron; the troublesome bunch that I was fortunate enough to have lunch with not so long ago. They live together at a care facility called Hermano Pedro in Antigua, Guatemala, and are four of the approximately 250 adults and children that live in this facility. Hermano Pedro cares for people with severe mental disabilities (and the resulting physical disabilities) and is run by the Catholic Church. Many of the patients have no family as they were abandoned at a young age, others will see their families a few times a year and others are fortunate to get regular visits. Fortunately, they have a great number of volunteers so have the company of someone most days.

It is always a special experience to visit our friends at Hermano Pedro, so recently when Lisa, Jessalyn and I (co-founders and full-time volunteers at smallchange4bigchange*) had the opportunity to take these darling young men out for lunch we didn’t hesitate.

Pollo Campero was the destination (similar to KFC – and yes, not the most nutritious lunch, but they love it!). So, with wheelchair seatbelts fastened and bibs at the ready we made our way through the streets of Antigua to Pollo Campero – no mean feat given that the streets are all cobblestone and our young men are getting heavy from all the love they get at Hermano Pedro. It is hard to describe the emotion that these guys have just getting to spend some time outside but when they know they are on their way to Pollo Campero they are outrageous. Shrieks and squeals, and shouts and screams we were seated and ordered our meals.

Chicken nuggets, fries and an ice cream sundae later it is hard to know whether more food went into Roberto’s mouth or all over he and I, but he’s happy; grinning from ear to ear as we head towards the playground – the slide is beckoning him. With Lisa as catcher at the bottom we send him down the slide to great laughter and giggling. This is the most pure moment of happiness you are likely to experience on this earth.

These are the real beautiful people. Four young men stuck in bodies that they can’t get out of; and two beautiful women – Lisa and Jessalyn, whom I am fortunate to experience these moments with. Beauty isn’t botox and a bikini body, beauty is the natural aurora that all of these people boast. I am blessed to have them in my life.


*Sidenote: smallchange4bigchange is a small non-profit co-founded by Lisa, Jessalyn and I (we are all full-time volunteers). Our focus is sustainable development of rural communities in Guatemala but we also spend some of our ‘free-time’ volunteering at various other ministries. To find out more please check out our website www.smallchange4bigchange.org or facebook page at www.facebook.com/smallchange4bigchange

A RECIPE FOR SUCCESS

"Don’t be a tourist. Plan less. Go slowly. I travelled in the most inefficient way possible and it took me exactly where I wanted to go." 
                                                                                            -National Geographic’s Andrew Evans


Sure, you will be dealt your fair share of Lonely Planet lemons and stinky toilets. You will likely contract various tropical diseases and lose more socks in the wash than ever before. But really, if that is the worst that could happen, then what’s keeping you?

It is the pursuit of new cultures, the pursuit of new people, the pursuit of new beliefs, the pursuit of new experiences. Travel is the pursuit of everything and nothing.

Herein is a recipe proven for success:

Ingredients

5 Pairs of Underwear
5 Pairs of Socks
5 T Shirts (or similar)
2 Pair Trousers
2 Sweaters
2 Pair Shorts
1 Sun Hat
1 Wolly Hat
1 Waterproof Jacket
1 Swimsuit
1 Pair Jandals
1 Pair Sturdy Shoes
1 Bottle Sunscreen
1 Bottle Insect Repellent
1 Backpack (or similar)
1 Good Sense of Humour
A whole bunch of time

Step 1: Collect all items on ingredients list and pack into backpack (or similar).

Step 2: Realise that everything you really need is packed into your backpack. Proceed to throw out, give away and donate nearly all of your other possessions except the sentimental Christmas jersey from your Nana and love letter from your first boyfriend/girlfriend. Put these sentimental items in a box in your parents’ attic.

Step 3: Start dreaming. Let your thoughts run. Jot down ideas. Talk to other travellers. Determine a starting destination.

Step 4: Buy transport ticket to predetermined starting destination.

Step 5: Follow your nose, follow the road, follow whatever you like; but for best results try not to follow other travellers too often.

Step 6: Maintain an open mind and heart, take only pictures, leave only footprints.

Step 7: Accumulate numerous stories of rabid dog attacks, 70 hour bus rides, jumping out of planes and swimming with piranhas. Caution: Don’t tell these stories to your mother for the sake of her sanity.

Step 8: Realise that in the course of your travels you have been actively trying to repel numerous insect creatures but there is one bug that you have taken quite a likening to – the travel bug.

Step 9: Repeat from step 3.

THIS IS THE STORY OF A GIRL


“In heaven an angel is no one in particular”
                                                            - George Bernard Shaw

Whether or not Glenda was born an angel, I don’t know. But I do know that by uttering six words to a stranger in the park when she was just 17 years old, she has created a most heart-warming and inspirational story. A story that overcame the social and cultural barriers that are so clearly visible in Guatemala.

At 8 years of age Antonio was resigned to a life of shining shoes. His family had little money to clothe or feed him and school was but a distant dream. It was a chance encounter with his guardian angel when polishing her shoes in the Central Park of Antigua, Guatemala that changed the path his life would take forever.

Hungry and cold Antonio hears the words:

“Do you want something to eat?”

A hesitant but yearning reply of “yes” resonates - unbeknown to either Glenda or Antonio this was the start of a beautiful story.

Over the coming weeks and months a friendship is cultivated.

“If you need anything Antonio, please, please ask”

So he did. Antonio was supported in various ways but most importantly he was given the opportunity to begin and then continue his school education.

Today, Antonio is 19 years old. He finished and excelled at school and is now part way through a Bachelor of Public Relations at University. He has a part-time job at a restaurant to help fund his studies. He has a long-time girlfriend. His life is galaxies away from what might have been if not for meeting Glenda.

These are the stories that need to be told. And the importance of such an act must not be underestimated. It is largely uncommon to find the upper-class people of Guatemala assisting the lower or even middle classes. For a young upper-class woman to reject these norms and undertake such an act must be recognised as revolutionary.

In heaven an angel may be no one in particular. On earth, true angels are fewer and farther between. The knowledge that one person can change the path that someone’s life will take in such a beautiful way is heartening.

This is the story of a girl; of an angel.

THE END?


“Now this is not the end. It is not even the beginning of the end. But it is, perhaps, the end of the beginning”

                                                                                                                 ~ Winston Churchill

When people asked me how long I was staying in Guatemala I would always reply “I’m not sure…I have no plans” but then I would say “But one day I will wake up and I will know it is time to move on.”

Well, I had that morning recently. My time is up. This is my last week in Guatemala. The world is waiting for me, and it can’t wait any longer. In this blog I want to reflect on the ups and downs of the incredible journey that has been my life for the last 8 months.

I have volunteered most days for the duration of my stay and discovered the meaning of a fulfilling job. I can now speak intermediate Spanish. I have been drugged twice.
I have been mugged once. I have had two different stomach parasites. I have had incredibly happy days. I have had incredibly sad days. I have helped build 8 houses
I have changed more nappies than I would care to tell you about for our blessed little souls at Casa Jackson. I have helped build a vegetable garden for a family in the jungle and taught them how to grow produce for themselves. I have helped to fit wheelchairs for children whom have never had a wheelchair before. I have met some amazing free spirits…and life-long friends…and soul-mates. I have fallen in love...with the culture, the people – the whole darned package that is Guatemala. I have found out who I really am.

I am different.

I have made a difference.

Now this is not the end. It is not even the beginning of the end. But it is, perhaps, the end of the beginning. Guatemala has not seen the last of me. With exciting projects on the horizon such as co-founding smallchange4bigchange – a non-profit organisation, this is just good-bye until September 2012. So, thanks for the memories Guatemala, I will see you again soon! But for now, bring on South America!!

PS You can check out smallchange4bigchange at:

www.facebook.com/smallchange4bigchange

Even better, like the page to keep-to-date on what is happening. More on this exciting new project in another post.

BLACK OR WHITE?

“Choices are the hinges of destiny.”

- Pythagoras

I had the most interesting encounter a few weeks back with a lady from Australia. A strong woman, a fearless woman – I would imagine. At 47 years of age, she has been travelling solo for the last 12 months after quitting her job and leaving her comfortable Melbourne lifestyle behind. And somewhat of a spiritual journey she has had too; the last 6 months practicing meditation and becoming acquainted with her being – mentally, emotionally, spiritually – under the guidance of Mayan gurus in the Lake Atitlan area, Guatemala.

I particularly enjoy talking to these fascinating people I encounter in my travels. I am intrigued by their outlook on life and also wish to uncover the gems of counsel they possess.

Well, we had a lot of time to talk. We met one Sunday morning early, with the hope of catching numerous modes of transport from Belize to Mexico, then spent a further 3 days in the same hostel. During one of these trips we got into a rather philosophical conversation around decision-making and consequences. We all have decisions to make, but it is the handling of these decisions and the choices we make that determine the path before us – our destiny.

“So, who are you going to feed Mateo? The white wolf, or the black?”

This took me by surprise. I have never had it put to me so plainly. The white wolf, or the black wolf; it is about how you handle any situation put in front of you. You have a decision to make – the choices lay distinctly different paths. Do you feed the black wolf, or the white?

Oftentimes, feeding the white wolf means the illogical choice, the choice with the most risk, the choice that puts you out of your comfort zone, the choice that renders you vulnerable to lose the great things you already have. And it is not to say that feeding the black wolf won’t allow you to feel content. But don’t you want more than that?

The reward for feeding the white wolf is greater than anything you have ever had. Life – it is the constant struggle of the head and the heart, but throw the white wolf a bone now and again, and something truly magical awaits you – your destiny.

Sidenote: It seems this is an important theme in my thoughts at the moment. Uncovering this wealth of wise counsel has allowed me to better understand how to more regularly achieve THOSE MOMENTS I wrote about at the start of this year (refer: EVERYONE LIVES, NOT EVERYONE IS TRULY ALIVE – Meditaciones del Momento, Jan. 2012). Always reaching, always seeking, always looking and always dreaming, but now a little more aware of how to go about it.